Miss Crowley became Mrs Reeder

On March 7th Miss Crowley (a third grade teacher at St. Columbkille Catholic School) became Mrs. Reeder. May of her students were there to celebrate with her.

The Wednesday before, there was a shower for her.

The classroom had made a project for Ceili, but a second one was created as a wedding gift.

Congratulations Mr. & Mrs. Reeder!

Wedding Gift

Miss Borcyk's 5th grade class gave her this picture as a gift as she become Mrs. Wildman later today.

Congratulations!

Farewell Miss Senger...

...she is now Mrs. Olson.

Congratulations to Mr and Mrs. Adam Olson!

Love is Eternal

Thirty-three years ago I met the love of my life, a cute boy who made me laugh. His Polish surname I could barely pronounce.

I was introduced to Tim on a warm July evening in the parking lot of a Taco John's restaurant (romantic, I know). Some of his friends from Prep knew some of my friends from Mercy. The boys recognized my friend's car in the parking lot and stopped to talk, and throw water at us.

I was sitting on a concrete stoop when Tim walked up. We talked a little about our both being Polish. I suppose that's natural when someone named Kisicki meets someone named Szalewski.

After that initial meeting, a couple of months went by before Tim asked me out on a date. We still saw each other often, though, whenever our friends crossed paths. And every time that Tim and I would catch each others' glance, he would fall down. He would trip and tumble, very dramatically. I'm not sure which is stranger, that a boy would perform slapstick falls to get a girl's attention, or that a girl would be charmed by that. But it worked.

Because we were so young (and a bit immature?), we had a long courtship, eight years. We celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary on Tuesday.

So what does a silly love story have to do with faith?

Father Vogel provided one answer when he blessed our marriage after the 5:30 p.m. Mass on Tuesday. Every faithful marriage signifies the union Christ has with his spouse, the Church, Father told us. The loving union of a husband and wife points to a far greater and more glorious mystery, Christ's union with and love for His Bride.

Anyone who is married knows something about that love. It requires fidelity, even if your spouse might not be faithful, and constant sacrifice. There are the day-to-day sacrifices, tiny crosses that teach us patience and perseverance. We accept these as spouses, but even more so as parents. And every love story culminates in a bigger and more painful cross, when we are separated from our loved ones -- through rejection, distance, illness or death. In other words, we are guaranteed pain when we embrace love.

But love -- in its ultimate symbol of the Cross -- is victorious over all sin, suffering and death. Love, as St. Paul reminds us, is eternal.

Tim and I have been blessed so abundantly through our 25 years of marriage, especially through our children, who seem to share their father's odd sense of humor.

Tim doesn't purposefully fall so much any more, though when he stumbles accidentally he still likes to make the most of it. He enjoys embarrassing his family members as much as possible through his pranks. Even his loud laugh embarrasses us. I shrink in my seat when we go out for a movie and he laughs at a funny line. One daughter told me she pretended to not know who he was when she heard his laugh from across the field at her soccer game.

Yes, Tim can be embarrassing. But somehow I'm still charmed by that odd sense of humor and remain in love with him, more than three decades after we met.

Please pray for all marriages, that God continues to bless these unions with His graces, and that they reflect the great mystery of His eternal love.

Inspired by this Year of Faith we will be posting columns like this from Susan Szalewski about exploring and/or deepening our faith. Watch for it on Thursdays and see the Year of Faith Blog here.

Happy Anniversary!

Deacon Eldon Lauber works with many engaged couples in their Marriage Preparation. When he talks with couples he can bring the experience of 50 year of marriage as he and Judy celebrated that milestone last week.

Happy Anniversary!