I've become a funeral crasher.
I never set out to attend strangers'
funerals. I've been trying to get to weekday Masses, sometimes during the
lunch hour. And one parish, St. Cecilia's, happens to have an 11:15 a.m. Mass
in its Our Lady of Nebraska Chapel. But occasionally, a funeral in the main
sanctuary will trump the chapel Mass.
I haven't had a way of knowing about the
funerals in advance. I figure it out once I drive close to the cathedral and
see all the cars parked outside, including the funeral escort cars. And at that
point, I conclude, I'm already here, why not? I won't have time to get to a
Mass elsewhere.
Maybe God wants me at the funeral. Maybe He
wants me to pray more for the dead and those who mourn them. Maybe He wants me
to pray in particular for that one poor soul and everyone inside the cathedral
that day.
I try to sneak in and find a seat far from
the altar and the grieving families. Usually I'll grab the funeral program to
see whom I'll be praying for.
Of the four funerals I've crashed, three have
been for grandparents and one for a 26-year-old. And they've been an even split
of two men and two women.
In the priests' homilies, I glean some things
about the people who've died. Somehow it inspires me and helps me pray for them
when I learn about their faith, their pastimes and the zest they had for life.
Funerals, of course, make us reflect on
eternity and the briefness of our lives here.
One priest had the congregation ponder the
importance of praying for the dead. We pray for them every time we go to Mass,
he said, particularly in the Eucharistic prayer when we pray: "Welcome
them into the light of Your face."
That prayer, he said, is perhaps "the
most daring, boldest prayer of all -- to see God face to face."
And, the priest said, "it is our great
privilege" to make that request on behalf of the souls who have gone
before us.
I guess my funeral crashing isn't something
to be ashamed of. It is, indeed, an honor.
May we be bold today and pray for our souls
and the souls in purgatory, especially those of our loved ones -- that we may
see God face to face.
Inspired by the Year of Faith, Susan Szalewski began writing weekly columns for us. Although that year is over, we liked them so well that we asked her to keep writing. Thankfully, she said yes. So watch for these on Thursdays and see the Year of Faith Blog here.
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